Field Guide to the Loner: The Real Insiders.
The content introverts' camp closely borders the land of the socially anxious. Matsuoka, for example, says she was "pathologically shy" as a child, which likely laid the groundwork for her current lifestyle, even though she grew much more confident in her 20s. Those who remain "enforced loners" long to spend time with people, but shyness and anxiety inhibit them from doing so. "Introverts are people who like to be alone," says Paula Montgomery, an accountant from St. Louis. "I prefer to be around other people, but because of my shyness, it's difficult for me to join groups and make friends."
That's me! I'm a loner. I have an extremely hard time making new friends. I'm terrible when it comes to making small talk with strangers. Hell, I don't even feel comfortable leaving comments on blogs. I'd love to be more outgoing, but I have no idea how. Every time I try to start a conversation with a stranger, I end up getting tongue-tied and embarrassed.
I've stopped going to the movies because of the reactions I'd get from strangers in the theater. People would actually ask me why I was there alone. Some would even sit next to me because they felt sorry for me. I'm fine with going to the movies alone. I prefer to go alone because when you go with someone else they usually talk to you during the film.
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